Sermon: As Always, Without Fear
Introduction:
Brothers and sisters, we live in a time where discussing sensitive or controversial issues is fraught with tension. The world around us often demands silence on topics that need the light of truth, but as Christians, we are called to engage with the world, not retreat from it. Yet, the challenge remains: How do we address difficult topics with grace, empathy, and the wisdom of Christ? Today, I want to guide us through some biblical principles that help us approach these issues with courage, wisdom, and love.
1. Lead with Empathy and Understanding
In every conversation we have, especially when we address sensitive issues, we must begin by understanding where others are coming from. Jesus, our perfect example, always approached people with compassion. Look at how He interacted with the woman at the well in John 4. He knew her sins, yet He didn’t begin with condemnation but with empathy—offering her living water. Before we speak, we must listen, acknowledge the complexity of issues, and show that our words come from a place of love, not judgment.
• Scripture Reference: “Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.” (Romans 12:15)
2. Frame the Discussion with Questions
Jesus often used questions to guide people toward truth. Instead of starting with declarations that divide, we can ask open-ended questions that invite dialogue. When Jesus asked, “Who do you say that I am?” in Matthew 16:15, He allowed His disciples to explore the truth for themselves. This approach opens doors rather than slamming them shut.
• Scripture Reference: “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1)
3. Use Art as a Medium
Art—whether it be music, poetry, or storytelling—has the power to soften hearts and provoke thought in ways that direct confrontation cannot. Just as Jesus used parables to communicate deep truths, we too can use creative expression to engage difficult topics. Art allows for layers of interpretation, giving people space to reflect without feeling immediately challenged.
• Scripture Reference: “He spoke all these things to the crowd in parables; he did not say anything to them without using a parable.” (Matthew 13:34)
4. Rely on Facts, Scripture, or Research
When we address complex issues, we need a firm foundation rooted in truth. As Christians, we are called to stand on the unshakable Word of God. It is not enough to rely on personal opinions or emotions; we must ground our discussion in Scripture, facts, or credible research. Jesus often cited Scripture to clarify His teachings, showing us the power of God’s Word as a foundation.
• Scripture Reference: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” (Psalm 119:105)
5. Maintain Humility and Stay Open
Humility is key to any difficult conversation. As Paul reminds us, we see “through a glass, darkly” (1 Corinthians 13:12). We don’t have all the answers, and admitting that allows others to open their hearts to the truth. When we approach discussions from a place of humility—willing to learn, willing to be corrected—we invite constructive dialogue.
• Scripture Reference: “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.” (Philippians 2:3)
6. Choose Your Audience Wisely
Jesus Himself was discerning about when and where to share certain truths. Sometimes, He spoke plainly; other times, He remained silent. Not every audience or platform is the right place to engage in sensitive discussions. Jesus taught that we should not “throw pearls before swine” (Matthew 7:6), reminding us to use discernment when deciding whom to engage with certain topics.
• Scripture Reference: “If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet.” (Matthew 10:14)
7. Acknowledge the Taboo Directly
When Jesus talked about hard topics, He didn’t shy away from the tension. He acknowledged the difficulty but pushed forward because it was necessary. For example, in John 6:60, after speaking about being the Bread of Life, many of His disciples said, “This is a hard teaching. Who can accept it?” Yet Jesus continued to explain because truth, even when difficult, must be spoken.
• Scripture Reference: “The truth will set you free.” (John 8:32)
8. Use Humor and Irony (Carefully)
Jesus sometimes used irony to make profound points, as when He called out the hypocrisy of the Pharisees by saying they “strain out a gnat but swallow a camel” (Matthew 23:24). Humor, when used wisely, can disarm and allow people to engage with tough topics in a less defensive way. But it should never mock or belittle; it should always build up.
• Scripture Reference: “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” (Colossians 4:6)
9. Focus on the Universal Human Experience
At the heart of every difficult conversation is our shared human experience. We all have the same needs: to love and be loved, to know truth, to find purpose. When addressing sensitive topics, we should focus on these universal desires. Jesus did this constantly, showing people that beneath their sins or struggles, they were deeply loved by God.
• Scripture Reference: “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear.” (1 John 4:18)
10. Prepare for Pushback and Be Resilient
Even with the best intentions, not everyone will receive your words well. Jesus Himself faced rejection despite speaking with perfect wisdom and love. In John 15:18-19, He warned His disciples that the world would hate them as it hated Him. We must be prepared for this pushback, standing firm in our convictions while remaining full of grace.
• Scripture Reference: “Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 5:10)
Conclusion:
As we engage with the world around us, addressing difficult and even taboo topics, let us follow Jesus’ example of truth spoken in love. Let us lead with empathy, ask thoughtful questions, and rely on the unshakable foundation of Scripture. As we do so, we must remember that our goal is not to provoke but to encourage understanding and reflection, knowing that we are called to be salt and light in a world that desperately needs both.
As always, without fear, God bless,
James Arthur Ferguson

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