Sermon: The Law of Attraction—Navigating Love, Desire, and the Call of the Heart
Introduction: The song “Calling Me Back for More” speaks to the powerful and often mysterious forces that draw us toward someone we deeply care about. It describes the ebb and flow of emotions, the push and pull of relationships, and the undeniable pull that keeps bringing us back to the one we desire. This dynamic can be seen as a reflection of the law of attraction—a concept that resonates both in the context of human relationships and in our spiritual journey. By exploring these themes through Christian Libertarian Ideology, modern human perspectives, and Scripture, we can gain insight into how love, desire, and spiritual attraction shape our lives and guide our actions.
The Push and Pull of Love: The Gravity of Relationships The song likens the dynamics of a relationship to the gravitational pull between the moon and the ocean: “The gravity of your moon, and I’m the ocean lady. We push and pull, rise and fall.” This imagery beautifully captures the natural rhythms of love—the moments of closeness and distance, of rising passion and quiet reflection. In relationships, just as in the natural world, there is a constant give and take, a balance that must be maintained.
In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Paul writes about the nature of love: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” This passage reminds us that love is about more than just attraction; it’s about cultivating a deep, lasting connection that can weather the ups and downs of life. Christian Libertarian Ideology values the freedom to choose our relationships, but it also emphasizes the responsibility that comes with that choice—the need to nurture and sustain the bonds we form.
The Call of the Heart: Responding to the Law of Attraction The song’s refrain, “Calling me back for more,” speaks to the irresistible pull of attraction—the feeling that, despite challenges or uncertainties, we are drawn back to the one we love. This concept of the law of attraction is not just about romantic desire; it can also be seen as a metaphor for our spiritual journey. Just as we are drawn to certain people, we are also drawn to God, who calls us back to Him again and again.
In John 6:44, Jesus says, “No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them, and I will raise them up at the last day.” This verse speaks to the divine attraction that pulls us toward God—a force that is as powerful and undeniable as the gravitational pull described in the song. Christian Libertarian Ideology supports the freedom to seek and respond to God’s call, recognizing that this spiritual attraction is an essential part of our faith journey. The song’s expression of being “called back for more” invites us to consider how we are responding to God’s call in our own lives, and whether we are allowing ourselves to be drawn closer to Him.
The Desire for Commitment: Longing for a Queen The song expresses a longing for commitment and a desire to make the beloved “my queen”: “So I think that you should be my queen, cause I just can’t shake this notion.” This desire for a deeper, more permanent connection is something many of us can relate to, as we seek meaningful relationships that go beyond fleeting attraction. In the context of Christian faith, this longing for commitment can also be seen as a reflection of our desire for a deeper relationship with God—a commitment that is rooted in love, trust, and faithfulness.
In Ephesians 5:25, Paul writes, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” This verse highlights the sacrificial nature of true love and the deep commitment that comes with it. Christian Libertarian Ideology values the freedom to choose our commitments, but it also emphasizes the importance of making those commitments with intention and care. The song’s longing for a queen challenges us to reflect on the commitments we are making in our lives—whether in our relationships, our work, or our faith—and to ensure that they are aligned with our deepest values and desires.
The Journey of Love: Navigating Challenges and Growth The song acknowledges the challenges that come with love: “Circumstances lead me as a king with no throne, a wonder man in this land of my own.” This imagery suggests a sense of uncertainty and struggle, as the narrator navigates the complexities of love and relationships. Yet, despite these challenges, there is a sense of determination and hope—a belief that love is worth pursuing, even when the path is difficult.
In James 1:2-4, we are encouraged to “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” This passage reminds us that the challenges we face in love and life are opportunities for growth and maturity. Christian Libertarian Ideology supports the freedom to navigate these challenges in our own way, but it also recognizes the importance of perseverance and resilience. The song’s journey through the ups and downs of love encourages us to embrace the challenges we face, knowing that they are part of the process of becoming stronger and more complete.
Conclusion: “Calling Me Back for More” is a song that captures the complexities of love, desire, and attraction—the push and pull of relationships, the longing for commitment, and the journey through challenges and growth. It reminds us that love is not just about attraction; it’s about making a choice to commit, to persevere, and to allow ourselves to be drawn closer to the one we love.
As we reflect on these themes, let us be encouraged to respond to the call of our hearts—whether in our relationships with others or in our relationship with God. Let us remember that true love requires patience, kindness, and a deep commitment to one another. And let us embrace the challenges we face, knowing that they are opportunities for growth and deeper connection.
May we all find the courage to pursue the love we desire, to commit to the relationships that matter most, and to respond to God’s call in our lives. And may we always trust that, no matter where we are on our journey, we are being drawn closer to the love and purpose that God has planned for us.
If I don’t seem the way you see me
Just know, baby, it’s cause maybe, someday
I’d like to have you as my queen
And I just can’t shake this notion
My feelings for you are growing
The gravity of your moon
And I’m the ocean lady
We push and pull, rise and fall
But through it all, I’ll be waiting on the shores
Waiting for your wave to knock me to the floor
It’s calling me back for more
And if I’m hidden in your vision
From the side of me squeezing
So I think that you should be my queen
Cause I just can’t shake this notion
To second my emotion
The gravity of your moon
And I’m the ocean lady
We push and pull, rise and fall
But through it all, I’ll be waiting on the shores
Waiting for your wave to knock me to the floor
It’s calling me back for more
Circumstances lead me as a king with no throne
A wonder man in this land of my own
But you don’t know
The law of attraction brings me back
It brings me back to your front door
Calling me back for more, more, more
We push and pull, rise and fall
But through it all, I’ll be waiting on the shores
Waiting for your wave to knock me to the floor
It’s calling me back for more
Calling me back for more
Calling me back for more
More, more
Calling me back for more
As Always, God Bless,
James Arthur Ferguson

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